When a woman is talking, shes very passionate. 
Thats what she do, and men have to recognize that to play the game. You have to act as if you're listening, for one, and two, you must be careful when you transitoin to another subject, someting intimate about her, lets say. The secret is to let women do all the talking while you do all the listening. Ofcourse you have the power to interject a question or a comment from time to time. However, if shes talking lets say, about her exciting ski trip last winter, you can't just change the subject by asking "...so do you date often"? She will probably think youre rude, or is not listening to her. What you have to do is use whats called "smooth transition".
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In general, women love to talk and gossip. Women talk and gossip for hours over the phone and at work, so why should you do any different?
So how do you get her started? The answer is simple: open your eyes and observe a particular thing (something small and impersonal) about her that no one else would normally notice such as her nails, wrists/hands, hair, and so on. Then ask her an open-ended question regarding the subject and let her talk.
Listen very carefully to every word she has to say. You will get clues to build upon a sequence of questions and keep the conversation focused on her.
By keeping the conversation focused on her, you kill three birds with one stone.
First: Make the conversation interesting if it is focused on her because in her eyes, it must be interesting -- after all, she is an interesting person. Take the time to find out unusual and deep things about her childhood. Was she close to her parents, did she grew up an only child, did she always cherish daddys big hugs etc etc....that will intrigue her and make you more magnetic, but it also gives you very useful data that you can use in your seduction strategy.
Second: Show that you are a considerate and caring person who is also a good listener. She is probably expecting you to compliment her on her beauty like all other men.
Instead, give here a neghit, nothing too nasty, but something that will catch her by surprise and intrigue her. For example, during the conversation, you can say something like, "I think I've seen you before, I'm not sure where, but I do remember seeing that dress before :)"
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Of course you want the woman to associate happiness with you (anchoring), so you have to come right back with two positive hits. Something like, "I just noticed that you have: a beautiful collarbone / an amazing laugh / beautiful hands / a gorgeous dimple and so on. The idea is to give her the impression that you are being sincere and have your own opinion.
You don't want her to think that you are saying anything just to kiss her ass and get on her good side.
Third: Be very observative and pay attention to the conversation. Talking to a primary target is made easy when she is receptive to you. Remember that it takes two to have an interesting conversation. If you feel that the conversation is going nowhere, it does not necessarily mean that you're a bad conversationalist. In order to ensure that your primary target is still interested in you, you must observe her body language during the conversation. Look for these top giveaways to see if you should keep on talking or start walking.
- One of the more obivious signs is if her whole body is turned towards you.
- If she crosses her legs often, just to tease you subtly.
- She dangles her toes as if shes eating some good ice cream.
- She lowers her drink as opposed to holding it high and close to her face.
- She is really atuned to the conversation and looks deeply into your eyes.
- Find some way to touch or rub up against you.
- Flirts with you by licking lips, pushing out her chest or some other way shows she wants you.
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