First, let me just say, being a nice guy generally is NOT a bad thing.
I'm not throwing dirt on being polite, respectful courteous and a gentleman. What this article intends to focus on are the supplicating "Love me please", cry baby mentality that most men have developed, in order to woo women to their side.
If you have money and want to flaunt it that is your choice. Think for a moment though, of how much more commanding, powerful, seductively speaking, you would be if you didnt have to use money to attract beautiful georgeous women.
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As we all (should) know, women are complex moody beings so logic sometimes is the last thing they think of when emotions take over. And nature put it inside her to magnetically be attracted to the strong fit man who will be a good father for her kids. That being said, being a supplicating nice guy sends the wrong impression to any prospective lay partner and relegates your chance of seduction to only desparate, ugly and insecure women that most likely tips the beauty scale at 5 or under.
How would you know you're a supplicating nice guy? Have you ever find yourself calling a girl 3 or 4 times a day? Have you buy women gifts to coax her into loving you? Do you say "yes" to everything she ask or want? Do you always try to do things to please her even if you find it uncomfortable for you? If you answer yes to at least 2 of these questions, you have the nice guy syndrome.
Lets take a typical supplicator, "nice guy" routine, so you can get the point of what i'm saying. Guy goes up to hot sexy 8 or 9 and start to shower her with complements, like, "You looking really nice and sexy, your hair looks nice, i like your eyes" etc etc. What do you think is going through her mind at this point? "Kiss-ass, loser, punk, jelly-back", anything to dump you in her mind and move on to a real man.
You see. Girls do NOT want a weak, jelly back looking/acting man. Nature programs it in their head to instinctively look for a strong commanding guy who can not only protect her, but also provide strong genes for her kids. This is the same reason, women tend to gravitate to physically big and tall guys. So if you look weak, you immediately go to the back of the line. That is why, if you're not big and tall physically, you MUST find a way to bring out your strenght, to attract her. Acting like a weakling by kissing up do not help!
Change can be yours though. One thing to remember when approching women you want to seduce, especially the ones on the higher end of the scale (between 8 and 10) is that they receive complements everywhere from all the other supplicating guys out there. You dont want to approach her with the same lame boring theme. She knows she looks good. She knows she's sexy. Its being drummed into her head every day, so she dosen't need you to repeat the same lame jargon like a broken record. She wants you to be original.
Now, to be original and different
you have to do a bit of work, like visiting sites like this and learning the strategies to be what women really want. For example, you want to maintain control the conversation at all times. One way to do this is, while communicating together, make sure to talk about, not yourself but her, as much as you can. Never talk about youself. Do the reverse to what most guys do. You might also want to find any simple thing she does to establish your authority and solidify your maleness. What do i mean? Well, lets say she accuses you of wanting only sex. Here is your chance to shine. Make a big deal out of it and be very suprised and appauled that she could ever think this. Make her think she lost some points with you or even lost some respect. This will propel you in her mind as a strong man who stands up to her. You will start to look alot more like a sexual partner in her eyes.
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