Neghits basically is used to bring a bitch down to size:) When a woman knows she looks good (9 or 10), and she is there surrounded by friends, she has to put on this BITCH act. Is she REALLY a bitch? Very unlikely.
All my girlfriends were wonderful human beings - beautiful people have it easier because they are beautiful and often times have better upbringings because of it.
She need to have a standard with which to uphold when all these LOSER guys approach her. So her values are very honed and understood.
When a man walks up and says, "can I buy you a drink?" she WILL be annoyed by this. While the guy thinks he's doing something nice for her, she's been getting this attention since she was 13! She is desensitised to this. You are the 8th guy TODAY, GOD DAMN!
So she is very good at brushing all these guys off. Shit, she HAS to be... she isn't going to sleep with ALL of them! :) So she may say NO or act annoyed and then the guy thinks she's a bitch and walks off pissed and feeling like a failure (WHICH SOMETIMES HE IS,LOL). And that seems to work.
Sometimes when the girl is particularly in a feeling of control (like in a club where she is PREPARED for the barrage of men - it IS after all something that occurs so often that when it is GONE she MISSES it) she will accept the beer alleze, long island ice tea, whatever, and then flake the guy off.
Hey, if the guys are stupid enough to buy her one, she might as well take it. When they take a drink from you, the girl is saying to you, "I don't know you and I don't care about you. You are just another one of those typical guys and since I don't respect you, Ill take the beer from you before I diss you."
adidas Women's a3 Microride Synthetic Running Shoe
Since a 9 or 10 is so GOOD at snuffing your approach (nothing ever personal either - it is a strategy that is built over years of stupid guys approaches EVERY FRIGGING DAY), she will do the same to YOU.
That is why DISSING THEM is important. You cant INSULT them because they are used to all the hurt guys INSULTING them ("ahh you are nothing but a bitch!") so this rolls off their back like water off a muskrats ass :)
How do you DISS her without INSULTING her? First of all, guys, i'm talking about a 9 or 10 here. The 5's and 6's etc have low esteem anyway so if you use a neghit on them you will ruin them, and ruin your chances.
Now the question is, why do 9 and 10s dress so FINE if they don't want the attention? Because they LOVE the feeling of control they have with guys. They know the power they wield over most men so they use it to their advantage.
Have you ever noticed that every time a woman gets a chance to control a man she jumps at it! So they are in a club with friends and they want to be the leader of the circle (social hierarchy in primates) and so she gets all the attention.
The guys come and buy drinks for them and she gets off on knocking the guys down. Its all in a days play.
Your Stategy: So she is wearing fake nails or weive to look even BETTER! Most guys will say, "wow you are so beautiful!" BORING, typical kiss ass supplicator, and in her mind by now (after years of the same suplicating kiss asses) TRUE.
Imagine a guy comes along and says "nice nails, are they real?"
She will have to concede, "no. acrylic." and he says (like he didn't notice it was a put down "oh. (pause) well I guess they still LOOK good." Then he turns his back to her and keep talking to his wingman, her friend who is a 6 or whoever. What does this do to her? Well, he didn't treat her like shit and INSULT her. He complimented her but the result was to target her insecurity.
She thinks, "IM HOT IM BEAUTIFUL (especially in that emotional state of control as in the public)... but I didn't win this guy over. IM SO GOOD at this. ILL just fix that little smear on my image that he has of me." Then you continue to show disinterest in her looks as you give her a neutral topic like travelling etc.
During this year (and every damn year) her intention is to get you to become like all the other kiss ass suplicators, so she can feel in control and snuff you. You then give her another NEG HIT like this ... " is that weive? well, its neat... what do you call this hairstyle?"
Smile and look at her to show her you are sincerely being funny and not insulting. You are pleasant but disinterested in her beauty. This will intrigue her because she KNOWS guys. And this isn't normal. You must have really high taste, lol, or be used to girls or be married or something. In other words she will be confused.
Canon Powershot S2 IS 5MP Digital Camera with 12x Optical Image Stabilized Zoom
These questions make her CURIOUS. So this keeps happening and is known as FLIRTING. She give you little neg hits and these tests are qualifiers. You pass them by neg hitting her back.
After all, you aren't like the others showing interest. But... why? To get control again she says, "will you buy me a drink?" notice how she is trying to get you now! BUT, she only wants to sucker you in enough so she can SNUFF you.
That is all she is about - this strategy is all she knows and it's not working for you so she is trying to do damage control on the situation. But at the same time she doesn't quite understand WHY you don't think she is great. After all, her nails ARE fake. You say, " ahhh, that's so funny ... you nose moves when you speak...... (pointing and being cute) look there it goes again ... its so... quaint ... hheeeee look " :D She'll say, "ahhh, stoppp!" :) *blush*.
Now she is self conscious and having her in this state is where you want her. You have, with 3 neg hits, successfully created INTEREST (curiosity) and removed her from her pedestal (removed her bitch shield.) You were humorous, you had a smile, you dress well, you are confident and everything she would want in a man.
You didn't take her shit. OH, and when she asked you for a beer, you said, " No. I don't buy girls drinks. but YOU can buy ME one". You are qualifying HER now. If she buys you a beer, this is symbolic of her RESPECT for you.
If not you say, "pleasure meeting you" and turn your back to her again. DONT walk away, just turn your back, talk to your wingman or something. You are neg hitting her again just when she thought she was negging YOU. This is all psychology, guys, stick with me.
Qualify her: A NEG HIT is a qualifier. The girl is FAILING to meet your high expectations. It's not an insult, just a judgement call on your part.The better looking the girl, the more aggressive you must be with using neg hits. A 10 can get 3 neg hits up front, while an 8 only 1 or 2 over a longer time.
You CAN go overboard and you know this if they begin to think you are BETTER than them. You can drop the self-esteem right from under them (just like most 10s do to guys) and this isn't good. You have to get as close to the breaking point as you can without crossing the line. Once you have gotten her RIGHT THERE, you can start appreciating things about her (NEVER LOOKS). There is mutual RESPECT now. Something most
guys never get from the girl.
This is how you remove a bitch shield. 3 neg hits ought to do it within 2 or 3 minutes of neutral chat. Once it is down, (why should she have an unfair advantage) you can from a mutual respect place, seduce her:)
Now, like I said before, once you get her to this point, dont start kissing her ass again.
Now you need to work on the close. This is your whole objective, remember!
Examples of negging a beauty. (Only for use with 10s or 9s who simply HAVE to know they ARE beautiful, any less beautiful girls can easily be destroyed by these!)
After you've negged her looks in some manner, follow up with:
Reccomended: 3 Second Rule