Kinesthetics:- Kinesthetics
(kino) is essentially associating a particular moment or period with a particular touch or feeling.
Psychological studies, over several years, show that casual touching during a friendly conversation causes people to remember the intricate details of a conversation more redily after the fact.
The combination of kino with social interaction is explosive! When you touch one girl, the other girls seeing this think its normal or even "good" to be touchy-feely with you. Now you can quite naturally move on to touching those other girls and so forth:).
It's quite simple - hug them, touch their hand sporadically and
in A NON INTRUSIVE MANNER, that is, not like the desperate pervert we know we are:) So the idea is, you hide completely the interest you might have and at the same time you act really touchy/feely with them.
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The trick is to start this early in the conversation. It has to seem natural, or otherwise she'll begin to wonder "what the hell is he doing" :) Once you've developed that kind of touchy/feely flirtatious friendship, it's easy to spawn other such 'friendships' with other women: They get really jealous (even if they dont know you) when they see you being close to another woman, and I think the punch is that, it probably does not trigger as much jealousy as it makes them (the "new" ones) feel comfortable - they see another woman being touched by you in a non-threatening way, and WALLA, they want it too! Its like social-proof to them that it's normal for you to touch them in turn... "
A good way to start your Kino is: If she says something, lean forward as if you aren't hearing her very well, and touch her (arm or back). Then lean back again and answer. You can also, perform your kino whenever youre both laughing out loud. And since you're that close to her just reach over over and kino on the shoulders. Are there any easy clues as to when is the right time to go kino? The clue is when it's possible (ie, she's within in range)".
Touch Her! It doesn't matter if you just met her. Start touching her lightly, on the arm, on her palm, hold her hand, rub her arm, her elbow her back, her shoulders, her hair, her face, whereever. Just be careful not to touch her breast :) You might be in for an embarassing slap :)
- PAY ATTENTION TO HOW SHE RESPONDS TO YOU!!!
- PAY ATTENTION TO HOW SHE RESPONDS TO YOU!!!
- One more time: PAY ATTENTION TO HOW SHE RESPONDS TO YOU !!!
Doing this will help you to judge if you have the appropriate rapport to invite a kiss. If her body seems to respond to the non-sexual touching then get gradually more sexual. For women some areas of the body outside of the primary erogenous zones are intimate: Palms, inside the elbow, ear lobes, cheeks, the hips were the waist meets the hips, between the fingers....
Do the things that lovers do :) - brush off "something" that's stuck in her hair, gently stroke her cheek pretending to wipe off an eyelash etc. These are the types of things lovers do and by doing them, you will
make her feel (doesn't even matter if only subconsciously) like you were her lover. Plus you'll get "innocent" yet pleasurable kino:)
Kino the moment you meet a girl. Meeting someone for the first time is an excellent chance for starting kino - shaking hands when exchanging names is a tradition of many cultures and cultures. But make sure you hold on to her hand longer than expected, long enough for you to enjoy it and her to notice, if not you enjoying it but at least you not letting go as quickly as people usually do.
When meeting girls you already know, shaking hands might seem strange, so giving some sort of a hug is the way to go. You don't need to fall all over her to give her a hug (which depending on the situation might even make you look like a fool or a pervert (which we all are, lol) or make her embarrassed instead of having her enjoy it too:), a hug can also be putting your arm around her waist or shoulders when standing to her left or right and pulling her closer for a moment, or taking her hand for a moment (but not shaking it), or her elbow, or arm, whatever you can get your hands on:)
Set the mood of the date from the start. Be in control. Control the conversation, and most of all kino. When going on a date/get-together, (which i do discourage), establish the mood immediately. You can of course change the mood from "polite and calm" to "warm and friendly" to "aroused and sweaty" during the course of the meeting, but why go the hard way, if you can jump right into "warm and friendly" or beyond in the first place.
Upon meeting the girl that you have made plans to go out with, make sure you act enthusiastic and make her laugh the way it was on the phone. . Be all smiles when you meet her, give her a big hug right away, try to take and hold her hand all the way to where ever it is that you'll be going together (women love hand-holding immensely) and watch her change from slightly nervous to happy, smiling, starry-eyed and glowing all over:) And remember - enthusiasm is contageous:)
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Foot-flirting Touch her feet "occasionally" with your own under the table, and say something like "hmmmm, are u foot-flirtin' with me?" in a joking way. Look her deeply in the eyes (dont blink) while doing this, and continue using your feet, as you slowly move your toes up to her thighs. Do it the right way and at the right time with a chick in the right mood and she will resist you not! You can actually advance to rubbing each other's crotches :) with your toes under the table, then say "my bed is that way" (make sure you look into her eyes with confidence) and WALLA! You're IN! :)"
Kino can definitely be the difference between
getting and not getting the girl. It is the "saving grace" lol, of even the otherwise doomed supplicating "nice guy" approach. And in some instances, being the "nice guy" together with using kino might even be quite effective. Here's why: the success of kino depends on whether the girl perceives you and your touch as a threat to her or not. You can be a rough and tough guy and still have the girl feel you are not a threat to her speficically, thus initiating kino will be easy.
I remember how mad I was as a teenager when I met my girlfriend's dad and he immediately liked me. I was doomed. I knew he thought I was such a good kid. In other words, I was safe, and not the kind of kid who would want to penetrate his daughter until she begs for mercy from above. He could trust me! A nice guy also usually just has an easier time having girls feel he is not a threat to them. Usually though, that is also his undoing, as he is consequently perceived as weak, neutral and non-sexual, bacically she can't see him as someone she would want to fuck. But here is where the power of kino steps in. You are "safe" :), so touching and hugging with you is... well, very comfortable and safe.
However, before she knows it - touching and hugging with you moves from feeling pretty good to quite exciting to really electrifying until all that good, safe and friendly physical contact with you is going to make her start to feel that feeling deep inside her, especially if you were utilizing the time to run some patterns on her:)
So remember - kino really is the difference between getting and not getting the girl, getting laid or not, which is the point, isnt it? :)
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