One essential thing that you MUST do when talking to the hot prospect you're interested in is to flirt with her like hell. There are some essential flirting moves that 
you must know. These are critical if you are to get out of the "Friend" zone and into the "I Want You" category with any woman:
1. Smiling. You must smile. You probably think you smile now, but you don't, really. You should practice your smile in the mirror. To be big enough to be noticed, your smile will probably have to be bigger than you are used to right now. Tip: Look at how celebrities fake smile/laugh in movies and small budget shows and imitate them in the mirror.
2. Getting caught looking. Most people look away when the object of their desire looks at them. If you want to let that person know you are interested, when she catches you looking, smile, hold eye contact a moment longer, then look away.
3. Waving. A little wave to someone who caught you looking (busted lol), along with a smile, is a not very used non-intrusive, flirty way to say "hello." Because you know what: On your way out the mall or shopping center, supermarket, whatever, you might see her again. At this point you have more confidence and can continue to say something else since you already "broke the ice" so to speak.
4. Winking. Winking is really stupid in my opinion, unless you already have a rapport going with her....but...but if you must do it here's how. You can wink at someone from across the room, or wink at someone during a conversation, just try to do it with a smlie. Thats important. If she says something funny, or someone else does something silly, you can give a wink as a way of sharing a little moment for just the two of you, as if the two of you are in on some private joke no one else is aware of.
5. Asking "what's the story behind that?" about any special or unusual thing your chick is wearing or carrying is a good way to flirt with a prospect your interested in. Examples: "that's really uniqely interesting bracelet you are wearing. What's the story behind it?" or "Interesting choice of dress. What's the story behind that?" Even if there isn't much of one, it's given you some way of starting a conversation with that can go much deeper than saying some supplicating line like "You're so pretty".
6. Eye contact. One of the most powerful ways to captivate a womans emotions and make her experience that deep intense feeling deep inside, is to look deep into her eyes, deliberately, especially if youre telling her something that make her feel that..."wow...this guy is different". Try to do this at least a few times so there's that brief, more intimate moment between you that touches her emotions.
7. Non-intrusive touching or kino. This can be as simple as placing your hand lightly on her hand for a moment, or touching her back for a moment as you walk to a table to sit down. However, I have found that the most effective way is to crack a joke and while you are both laughing together, laugh out loud and rest your hand on her shoulder or back, like friends do unwittingly :). Do this a couple of times on the first flirting interaction--if she pulls away, take the hint to not do it again.
8. Checking her out. Checking out her body must be done properly. 
I know its hard not to look at her sexy inviting booty, i mean, body :) and it would be stupid not to, but....but make sure when youre checking her body out that you do it while she's not looking.
That way she wont see you as a drooling sucker who she will most likely walk away from if approached. The reason she will do this is because looking at her make her feel so much more important, more like, "yes, i'm sexy and you want me....too bad you cant have me". It boosts her confidence level to a height you wont be able to reach and she begin to see herself as a 9 or 10 with respect to you, even if shes a 4!
9. Using the "I'm Leaving compliment" If you are shy, flirting with the "I'm Leaving compliment" may be just what the doctor ordered. On your way out, you simply go up to the woman you want to flirt with (dont think, just do it), and say something like, "It dosen't seem like you smile at all, do you?" with that half smlie on your face. You're guaranteed a great smile at this point. Smile back, then leave.
This allows you to build your confidence in approaching women, without having to take the risk of rejection--after all, you have to leave, you couldn't stay even if they wanted you to! Once you have mastered this technique, then you will feel confident enough to stay long enough to conversate. Some men also ask for a phone number at this point. Click Here to see how to get her number without asking.
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10. Stopping while it's still fun. Remember, flirting should be fun, and you should leave the flirting interaction feeling victorious. Most men leave their flirting interactions feeling like failures because they don't stop until it stops being fun. If you stop flirting on a high point, while it's still fun, she will definitely feel that same feeling, and even smile fondly when thinking of you, wanting to see you again. She will be thinking ....wow! this guy was fun...i would love to have fun with him".
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