Confidence: As soon as you walk into a room women start the natural process of scrutinizing you. You’re sending signals to women by the way you walk, talk, and project your energy, in other words, your confidence or lack there of is instantly known.
Women are naturally attracted to men who display self confidence. 
Why? Because confident men are successful, good providers and therefore will make the best mates to preserve our species. This is also why women are attracted to power and money. You may not have power and money, but you can develop confidence.
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When you approach a girl that you don't know, dont think. That is why you must approach her within 3 seconds of realizing the attraction. You need to believe deep down that you are a worthwhile guy and YOU are the one she always wanted. Believe that she will want to talk to you and believe that she will want to go out on a date with YOU. Deliberately try to internalize that...it will make an incredible difference in your attitude with women. Confidence is one of the key initial factors used by women to rate a guy during a first meeting so you MUST be confident to succeed.
Wingman: One sure way of building your confidence is to find a wingman, that is, find a friend who share your aspiration and passions about meeting and banging lots of sexy women. This is very powerful because subconciously, you know you have someone to back you up so this boosts your confidence. This is how you do it: You walk up to your prey, wingman, a few feet behind, get your conversation going, then your wingman walks up and you introduce him. The two of you now take turns laughing (see my laughing article)and talking with her. You see, the beauty of this is, if you get stuck ,or it becomes awkward, your wingman can pickup and crack a joke, ask her a question or something. Then you can come back with something really impressive and/or funny to solidify you as the alpha male shes looking to bang.
Practice: Practice, practice, practice. Use your wingman...go out and talk to every woman you meet in every situation. You must be like an agressive outside salesman who make contacts every chance he gets. Talk to women at supermarkets, laundry mats, gas station,local deli, in the line at the bank, in the store, at the local WMCA, wherever. At this point it dosen't even matter what she look like, all your doing is sharpening your skills, finding your comfort level and gaining confidence.
You could care less if she's fat or skinny, ugly or cute, interesting or boring (although you want to avoid the boring ones), tall or short, sexy or average. All you want to know is, can you go up to her, exhibit the confidence that women love, and start and hold a conversation. Dont be worried about messing up. Be positive about messing up. Experience is the greatest teacher. Learn from your mistakes! For example, you walk up to a female and instead of saying: "Wow! Your're really serious..do you smile (jokingly)?" you screwed the whole thing up and say: "Wow! You look really nice. Are you single?" only to get a rebuff. Analyze that! She probably heard twenty guys that day kissing her rear end, complementing her on how good she looks. All she can think of when you said it (for the 21st time) is, 'Jesus! another kiss-ass'. She dont have time for supplicators. Learn from that.
What You Can Become: Once, one of my super-scoring buddies invited me to go to a hot popping party with him. Not having much of a social life anyway, I accepted the invitation, and besides, this guy REALLY knew how to get laid. I sort of looked at myself as being one of those small sucker fish that attach themselves underneath a shark's mouth and live off the bits the shark spits out.
Anyway, we were wandering around this huge apartment complex, looking for the party. We were walking down a hallway when we passed an open door, and there was a party going on, but it was definitely NOT the party we had been invited to. This was a formal affair; everyone was very well dressed, and my buddy and I were both wearing jeans and scruffy tennis shoes.
Through the doorway I saw a stunning blonde in a low cut dress, surrounded by guys trying to hit on her. My buddy saw her too, looked at me, and went right into action (3 second rule). He walked right 
in the door, cut through the crowd of guys, say something to her that I couldn't hear, and hand her a card and a pen. She wrote something down, and out came my buddy, smiling ear to ear. He had gotten her phone number!
I asked him what he said, and he told me, "I just walked in there, looked at her, and said, `Excuse me. I saw you through the doorway, and unlike these gentlemen here, I don't have time for small talk. I'd like to take you out. Can I have your home phone number?'
Now, it's not always necessary to be that direct. But it is necessary to grasp and use the attitude my buddy had, the super-attitude which will get you laid more than any line, trick, good looks, fancy car or fortune. The attitude is:
I MAKE NO EXCUSES FOR MY DESIRES AS A MAN.
I MAKE NO EXCUSES FOR MYSELF.
I MOVE THROUGH THE WORLD WITHOUT APOLOGY.
Do you really want to get laid with all the women you could ever possibly want? Then STOP MAKING EXCUSES FOR YOURSELF! Don't make excuses for wanting to look at a beautiful woman. If you're caught looking, and she asks what you're doing, tell her!! Tell her you're enjoying studying just what a perfectly beautiful body she has, and to heck with her if she's too uptight to appreciate a real man who doesn't apologize for knowing what he wants!
Stop making excuses for wanting to meet a drop dead sexy woman! Stop making excuses for wanting to ask a woman out, 
and most of all stop making excuses for wanting to FUCK the living shit out of a woman you want! This kind of direct, powerful, go-for-it-attitude is an incredible turn on for women that can't be beaten!
Listen! It isn't even the words you use that convey this attitude! It's your tone of voice, your facial expressions, your posture, the speed at which you speak, everything non-verbal about you will show this attitude far more than words. This doesn't mean you have to be arrogant, or lack a sense of humor. You can be warm and friendly at the same time you are being direct and powerful. The key is finding the balance. Once you do you will not be able to keep women away from you.
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Now, it's easy to talk and tell you that you should have this attitude, but that won't help you to actually get it. That's why I am saying to you now. Practice, practice, practice. As I said before, talk to ugly women, fat women, skinny women, old women, young women. This will show you how to instill this attitude in yourself so that you automatically find yourself living by it in your approach to women you really want. You won't even have to try or to "think about it." It will just happen.
Here's the other attitude/belief you'll want to master if you really want to be a success at scoring with women like a madman.
I DON'T GET RATTLED BY SETBACKS
BECAUSE I LEARN FROM MY MISTAKES.
I remember watching a TV show where the host was interviewing a movie star/karate champ who shall go nameless. The host asked him what the secret of his success was, and the karate guy looked at him in that wooden way of his and said:
"When I first started out competing in Karate Tournaments, I wasn't that good. I got beat a lot, but I always learned from my mistakes. Instead of crying over my losing, I just studied what I would have to do differently the next time, and whenever I met the same guy again or a different guy in the same situation, I ALWAYS creamed 'em."
Look - unless you are unusually lucky, chances are you are going to make a few mistakes as you practice how to be successful with women. And, as great as these tricks are, they won't work every single time.
Unless you know how to learn from your mistakes and accept and occasional loss, you will get nowhere. The most successful guys I know at scoring all have two great strengths: They have the first power attitude we've just looked at, and they also know how to accept getting rejected without it bothering them and they learn from their mistakes.
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