Comfort: Comfort is the
one thing that, most women always hunger for deep down and desire longingly.
A good majority of women are scared sick of men they don't know, especially those that don't know how to smile and laugh. (Look out for the next new article "Laughing") Women want to feel that they can trust the guy they're with to the point where she can go call her girl friends and boast about him...even if it was the first date. Making her comfortable can drastically shorten the path to her heart and make her feel like she can be totally relaxed and open with you, which is what you want. So when you can get her to start revealing personal details about herself, then, you know she really feels comfortable being around you and with you.
Start Off Right: The first thing you want to do as soon you meet her, say your hello's and begin talking together is to show her respect: respect her intellegence (if she is intellegent), respect her body, and respect the dialog. What do I mean?
Lets take "her intellegence" first. You want to talk to her on the same plane, not talk down to her, not act as if you're more intellegent or smart, she will just think you're stuck-up and will get what - uncomfortable. Not Good.
Now when it comes to respecting her body, every guy should know what that means, come to think of it, girls complain about it constantly. However, for those of you who still dont know, respecting a girls body means you look into her eyes and try to elicit what shes saying to you rather than stare at the personality (breasts). It also means that you check out her hips and ass, when she leaves, when she looks away etc...you want to give the impression you're different from most guys, right!! She will notice if you look into her eyes rather than into her bosom.
When you saw the term "respect the dialog" you probably wondered what I meant. That means you need to be deeply engrossed in the conversation shes having together with you. Don't talk to your buddy across the way, gaze at the other girl passing, checking your watch etc. Focus all your attention on her, she's what matters at this moment and make sure to look deeply into her eyes as she speak to you. She will see a different guy who is "genuinely" interested in her and not just for her body, and her comfort level will increase.
Sensual Moves:
Something as simple as telling your woman her DRESS looks sexy on her or complimenting her unique sense of style or intelligence will make her feel as though you appreciate having her by your side. Women are very self concious, so when you reassure her that something about her is attractive or complementary, she will be drawn to you and this increases her comfort level. (Side note: You notice I didnt say she looks sexy, but the DRESS makes her look sexy)
Start going out of your way to make her feel comfortable, relaxed and open by doing little things like taking her to that place she always wanted, and again guys, you have to be careful not to give the impression that youre a supplicator, always spending your cash to WIN her over.
Make a whole conversation about her eyes....tell her how interesting and penetrating they are and the kind of feelings they engender deep inside as you look deep inside them.
Go into details and use every descriptive word you can get your brain on. Massage her feet to Artists like Mario, R. Kelly, Joe, D'Angello, Maxwell, Barry White, Baby face etc....-- they matter most after all.
Tease her:
The point behind a tease to bring out the need in her for you. For one, you can kiss her on the cheeks, on the neck, all over her face for that matter, getting as close to her mouth as you must without kissing her lips. Do your best to tease her until she's absolutely begging you to give it to her. The fact that you can hold yourself back will turn her on, and the aftereffect (her reminiscing) of your ability to keep yourself away from instantly penetrating her most cherished and delicate desires, especially if she's an 8 or 9, will serve to make her want you even more.
Talk sex:
Instead of always trying your best to get into her panties (which by the way turn most women off), spend some time discussing sex instead. Your fantasies, her fantasies, what you love about making love to her, your erogenous zones... anything goes. Now this "talk sex" advice is assuming that you are already banging her. If you're still trying to get into her pants, this must be done delicately. See my dynamite article on sex talk for ideas on how to get her talking sex without her thinking you're a pervert or shallow.
Kiss her for no reason:
Most women love kissing. There are too many guys who just dont know how to just kiss a woman wickedly and just walk away. Most expect much more to take place right afterwards. Enjoy the kiss. Sometimes it is not possible to kiss her and start taking off all your clothes so you can get into her pants. Kiss her passionately and don't try to make love to her. Give her a sensual massage without trying to grab at her breasts. If there is one thing that i can tell you guys is, a massage works wonders. If you never do anything I suggest, if you think this material is crap, if you think all the techniques written on the pages of this site is a joke..thats fine. GOOD IS AS GOOD AS YOU KNOW GOOD TO BE.
But, dont take lightly the fact that a massage puts a woman in heaven so to speak. 
I tell you this, if you can get her to agree to a sensual massage, (that means you will have to do the phone work first) and you took the time to really diligently learn how a massage is done, I put money on it that you fuck every woman you massage. The thing is, once she start to get the massage, that puts her in that relaxed comfortable mood, which is where you want her.
Then the massage multiply that 10 times! The trick is, while you're massaging her, concentrate on the massage, not on sexing her. Do the work and do it well. When you're done, make your move, dont pause between the end of the massage and the beginning of the kissing of her body, face etc.
This will not only pique her sexual curiosity, she will start wanting you to come on to her more than ever and she'll give you that very thing you always wanted, ( you pervert :) ). See new article: How to give a sensual massage
Be A Gentleman:
Once she gives you the ok (tacitly or verbally) to start kissing her neck, her body, her thighs.....basically, she wants to fuck; that dosent mean you have to be a pig now.
Remember, you want the experience to be memorable, not just the sex. Dont start getting all busy too fast, ignoring the sensual nature of the evening, women hate that too by the way. Next time she won't be as interested in making love to you. You need to show yourself different from most men, show her that there is something unique and special about being with you as opposed to most men. After all, women claims to know men and stereo type us as all the same. So, when they find that you're "different" :) then they will want you all to themselves :)
When it's obvious that she's in the mood, don't tell her you're tired -- that will really make her feel like you have energy for everything but her. She wont feel special. Rather, tell her something like, "If you want me to penetrate you tonight, imagine how much more you'll want it tomorrow..." Kiss her and leave it at that....
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