The case: It is no easy
task talking a woman out of her pants, unless ofcourse, shes an ugly ducking trying to getting her ego up by sleeping around. In that case, she's all over any guy that makes a pass at her. Now we both know the kind of women we want to attract - The ones that have a bit of self esteem, pride, integerity, looks etc. For a woman like that, you want to steer clear of certain topics, if you want to cut a clear path to penetrating her titilatingly, sexy and mouth-watering little body.
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You might have certain strong values, ideas, opinions and the like, and most likely these are things you will not push aside for any woman, and you should not! No woman should make you think twice about being a man and holding on to your values, stating your opinion and views. The problem is, sometimes when you're communicating with someone, you lose track of your objective, (in this case to finally penetrate and fuck the hell out of her
) and you begin to say things that adds no positive touch to your argument. So, it warrants that you avoid anything that will detract from your real objective.
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Topics to avoid:
That being said, trying to pickup a hot chick and diverting to your values, (for example, what you hate about women, and how they pist you off) is a step in the wrong direction. At the point you begin to go negative, that is the point when you begin to lose her, unless...unless you're able to refraim her mind. How much better not to go down the negative path. Some of the topics that I realize gets you into hot water are:
- Berating the boyfriend - If a girl tells you she has a boyfriend, you must take it in stride. What some guys do is begin to berate the boyfriendand to talk all sort of nasty things about what he might be or questioning her reasons to be seeing him.
A better approach would be to use reverse phycology. If she says, "my boyfriend is the best", you could respond like "...thats really nice....its nice when you can find that perfect relationship, that perfect guy, (keep eye contact) that never do anything wrong. Thats really nice." Then shutup. Most times, she will come back and say something like "...well i didn't say he was perfect..." and would then go on to divulge information that you can use to determine what she lacks in the relationship, or something he cannot give her, so as to tear into the insecurity she has. If you cannot approach it that way, its better to avoid the boyfriend all together.

- Your Frustration With Women - Some of us guys are just as frustrated and fed-up with women, the same way they are with us. We have had so many "bad" relationships that we tend to walk around bitter all the time. The only picture you want her to have of you is one of a funny, intellegent, down to earth guy that loves everything about women. Thats the kind of guy she wants to fuck! You don't want her to walk away with the image that you're a frustrated loser that always have problems with women. Try to remember your goal, which is to pick up the hot bitch you're talking to. That will help you to avoid talking about your frustrations.
- Religion - Avoid it like the plague. The problem with religion is, it is one of the most passionate subjects you could ever talk about, yet almost 100% of the time the conversation goes negative. Everyone has their own opinion about it and most times they are miles apart, sometimes even for people within the same church! Some of the most vicious wars of the present and past centuries were started and fought in the name of religion. Bad subject to tackle if you want to get laid.
- Evolution vs Creation - Again steer clear. This is border line religion also. You might find yourself debating, which comes first, the chicken or the egg instead of debating whether she goes down on you or not. Talking about evolution vs creation will relegate you to mastubation. Avoid it.
Why Avoid Certain Topics: By now, you must know why I recommend avoiding certain topics. But in case you still dont know, I'll explain in this paragraph.
Women are very emotional, and therefore make decisions based mostly on emotion. Feelings play a big part in their (mostly subconcious) decision to like or not like a guy. That is one reason why I wrote the article about how to laugh and make your prey comfortable. So the way you make her feel is paramount.
When she'e talking together with you, she wants to feel your voice as it resonates through the depths of her emotions, as it penetrates her soul. When she's with you, she wants to feel comfortable, she wants to feel your warmth as she looks deeply into her eyes. Those feelings take over her complete being and before you know it shes wet as pussycat that got thrown into the pool.
Stay focused on your goal of making her feel those intense feelings, and AVOID drifting off to your problems, your issues with women, or anything negative for that matter. Negativity produces a different set of emotions, mostly fear, anger, depression, guilt, jealousy, etc. have a negative effect on our body and our mind. In one of my articles I referenced the fact that the mind controls what you do. That being said, if you want the great feeling of penethating her all night, you better focus on the feel good emotions, and you'll be on your way.
How To Avoid Topics: I
was in the mall some time ago with a friend of mine, and we we both prospecting this hot chick who tips the scale at like a 7. She was very intellegent and confident about her looks sexy body etc so she figured she could be bold and ask us anything. She looked me in the eye and says to me; "How many girls have you been with?"
Now, to answer this question, you have to be careful for 2 reasons.
1) You don't want to give the impression you have slept with half of America.
2) You dont want her to think you're lying or is hiding something (being deceitful), which is even worse.
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Here's how you answer that: First thing you want to do is to start out as if you're going to answer the question, showing a good faith to answer. The next thing you want to do is to do a diversion. What do I mean? Check this out. To answer her question you begin by saying something like "...you know thats a very interesting question. Let me see, I probably have been (flip the script)...you know your hair looks extra silky today...what shampoo do you use? Most women will not notice that you have changed the subject, for the mere fact that you had started down the path of answering the question. She will then go on to answer your question and forget
she ever asked you one.
Use this technique to avoid answering ackward questions, avoiding certain subjects, or divulging information about yourself. It works.
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